Is it fair to say the Susan Christian is the most interesting person in my family tree? No … I find them all pretty interesting: Nolie’s sister who was married, had a child, was widowed and remarried all within 18 months – she’s pretty interesting. Garth’s ancestor who at the age of 20 fathered a child out of wedlock with a woman 10 years his senior, then married a different woman and had three children, then deserted them to homestead in Indiana with his common law wife – he’s very intriguing. (So is the common law wife, as she is my third great grandmother!) And I’m so curious about the couple of generations of Mormons – where did they come from and where did they go!
But Susan certainly came as the biggest surprise! When I first began researching my family tree, I knew next nothing to about Susan. All I knew was that that she was born in Ontario in 1863, went to England where she married, had four children, and then returned to Ontario. It always seemed to me that she was, well, going the wrong way. This is the only picture I had of her.
In the spring of 2015, I took the Ancestry.com DNA test and contacted a few people with whom I share DNA, my second cousin once removed (okay, I still don’t really get how all that nomenclature works) Jim Shreve, and my third cousin Irene Moore Davis. It was from them that I learned of the African twig on my family tree. And it was from Irene that I learned that my great grandmother “looked very much like her mother, Ann Wilson who emigrated to Canada from Lancashire, and far less like her father, Henry Christian who was born into slavery in Kentucky … The story in our family has always been that Susan did what a lot of people who could ‘pass’ did in those times: she moved away and lived her life as a white person. Passing often involved having minimal contact with one’s relatives or others who had known a person earlier in life: this was generally necessary to avoid being found out.”
Imagine my surprise! I have often regretted not asking my parents more about their ancestors, but learning that I have some African heritage really got me wondering. No one ever saw fit to mention this to me or my brother Greg? Why not? There are, I know, people for whom this information would be distressing, but not us. I did, however get a few interesting comments from my own first cousins. Bill Wagner pointed out to me that “there is some bigotry in our family.” When I asked him who in particular he meant, he told me Nolie. Interesting … did she know that her mother-in-law was half Black? When did she learn this? What did she think? And my cousin John Gee told me that his mother Betty told him that she might not have married Jack if she had known.
So I guess Susan’s plan to live her life as a white person worked! And what was she up to between the time she left Ontario and 1904 when she returned with her young English family?